Irene M C Soldavini PhD
INDIVIDUAL and RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLOR
I am Irene, a registered BACP counsellor with a PhD in anthropology. My academic and life experiences have allowed me to understand individuals' intrapersonal and interpersonal complexities, and I use this knowledge to help people explore emotional difficulties. I believe each client is unique, and my practice focuses on creating a tailored counselling experience for each individual. I aim to create a non-judgmental space for people to explore and become aware of their experiences and feelings. I position myself as "in" the therapy alongside my client. I try to let the client's pace and rhythm guide the therapy.
As an individual and relationship counsellor, I specialise in pluralistic counselling, a collaborative, integrative perspective rooted in humanistic-centred values. My expertise in existential counselling and compassionate focus therapy (CFT) allows me to use awareness and compassion to empower individuals. I have completed the foundation course in core process psychotherapy at the Karuna Institute. I am dedicated to providing an inclusive, supportive environment for clients to explore complexities.
I offer remote counselling sessions by Zoom in English and Italian. I also offer Walk-and-Talk counselling sessions in Edinburgh New Town and the Edinburgh Royal Botanic Garden.
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© Georgia O'Keeffe
© Georgia O'Keeffe
AWARENESS, COMPASSION, INCLUSIVENESS
A NON-JUDGEMENTAL SPACE FOR A MEANINGFUL EXPLORATION OF COMPLEXITIES
AREAS OF INTEREST
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Anxiety
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Bereavement
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Consensual non-monogamous relationships
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Couple counselling
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Death and non-related death losses
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Diasporic issues
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Displacement
- Epistemic, Hermeneutic, and Testimonial Injustice
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Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD)
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Grief
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Hoarding
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Identity
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Isolation
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LGTBQIA+
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Loneliness
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Losses
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Politics
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Polyamory
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Sex workers affirmative therapy
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Unconventional lifestyles
INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING
My practice provides an inclusive and compassionate approach to helping individuals through emotional complexities. My areas of interest include anxiety, bereavement, death and non-death related losses, identity issues, binary and non-binary genders, and unconventional lifestyles and sexuality.
I provide a non-judgemental environment where individuals can explore their feelings and experiences. I aim to help people better understand themselves and create a therapeutic space to find their own path and feel empowered.
RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLING
I specialize in existential and pluralistic relationship counselling. I provide a tailored environment for people of all lifestyles and backgrounds. My services include support for those who practice consensual non-monogamous relationships, polyamory, and other unconventional lifestyles (GSRD). I understand the importance of creating an inclusive and empowering space for clients. My approach is empathic and inclusive. I am proud to offer compassionate and non-judgmental counselling to l my clients.
Curriculum Vitae
QUALIFICATIONS/ACHIEVEMENTS
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BA Anthropology and Communication, Goldsmiths University of London
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MA Anthropology of Media, SOAS University of London
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PhD Anthropology and Film Studies, SOAS University of London
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Diploma in Couple Counselling, Relationships Scotland
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Foundation Course in Core Process Psychotherapy, Karuna Institute
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MSc in Existential Psychotherapy, New School of Psychotherapy and Counselling Ongoing
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Introduction to Compassionate Focus Therapy, The Compassionate Mind Foundation
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Compassion Focus Therapy for Grief, The Compassionate Mind Foundation
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Compassionate Focus Therapy for Hoarding, The Compassionate Mind Foundation
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Compassionate Focus Therapy Conference, The Compassionate Mind Foundation]
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Introduction to Walk and Talk therapy.
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EXPERIENCE IN COUNSELLING AND PSYCHOTHERAPY:
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Volunteer in a nurturing group for vulnerable children in a local primary school. The groups were led by a psychotherapist and based on group psychotherapy.
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Trainee counsellor at an LGBT Edinburgh-based counselling service.
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Trainee counsellor at Relationships Scotland Argyll and Glasgow.
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Counsellor in private practice.
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Trainee psychotherapist at an LGBT Edinburgh-based counselling service.
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Trainee psychotherapist for a low cost counselling service based in London.
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Trainee psychotherapist for a low cost counselling service in Edinburgh.
EXPERIENCE OF PERSONAL COUNSELLING AND PSYCHOTHERAPY
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Counselling.
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Psychotherapy ongoing.
© Georgia O'Keeffe
"The ultimate goal of therapy ... it's too hard a question. The words come to me like tranquility, like fulfillment, like realizing your potential. Things that Freud used to say; being able to work and to love, that's pretty good summary of it right there. But mainly it's this idea I tried to explain ... you have to develop a separate new therapy for every single client. So for some clients the goal will be this and for some the goal will be that. For one client I have now the goal really is for him to be able to discuss some of his vulnerabilities with his wife and then have a real relationship between the two of them".
"Seven Questions for Irvin Yalom", Psychology Today, Mar. 25, 2009
Fees
Individual counselling : GBP 95 per 50 minutes
Couple counselling : GBP 160 per 50 minutes
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